Monday, December 27, 2010

New Year's Resolution?

Ha! Maybe this year will be the year that I will be devoted to the blog. Sometimes I think the reason I don't like to write here is that I don't like reliving my days, as some tend to be fairly hellish. All in all, though, my days are much better than they were last year, when Indie and Sassy still were here. Beautiful news for them... they have finally been adopted! God worked such an amazing miracle in their lives. I miss them much more than I thought possible. We do get to see them occasionally. We saw them last on Indie's birthday, and I hope to see them in early January. I"ll ask their mom if she'll allow me to post pictures, but I'll understand completely if she chooses to guard their privacy.

The new adoption is going snail-slow, but pre-placement visits are still in progress. You might have guessed by now, but we are adopting Randy, a 13-year-old boy that we've done respite for in the past. It'll be a long road with him, and he may still choose to back out. The foster home that he is in now is wonderful, and he has serious apprehensions about leaving it. I hope that he chooses permanency, truly.

Pixie, Sissy, and Georgia are well settled and fitting in so well here. Beautiful little Pixie is a complicated mess, and I just continue to hope that she is improving. Sometimes in the midst of all this, it's hard to see progress since I'm constantly fighting the war. Many remarked on Indie and Sassy's marked improvement, but I never really saw or recognized it for myself. Sissy is a special little girl, with several health problems. She was actually supposed to have surgery today, but it had to be post-poned due to our snowy weather. She is making fantastic progress, both physically and educationally. Georgia is making improvements. This situation is so much harder for her than for the others. I pray for peace for her, as this seems to rapidly be going the way of TPR. Could we have 4 adoptions in 2011?

Jonathan and Juli are still thriving. Just as Georgia and Juli are the best of friends, Jonathan and Sissy are big buddies, which is so funny that my two "eccentric" kids have bonded. I actually think that having Sissy around has caused Jonathan to not want a brother anymore, which might be too bad since he'll be getting one anyway. Juli is in heaven with all these girls to play with. Such easy, amazing children they are!

I never have any trouble seeing the improvement in Mia Tiffany. She is doing extremely well in her new school. She has good friends, and a great boyfriend, and she has plans for the future. She has yet to have that teenage attitude, and she remains a constant help, and she is forever a sounding board and a bright spot in my life. I am so blessed with these 3 children of mine.

I'm going to try my best to keep you updated!

2 comments:

Diane said...

Missed your updates. So glad to read your post and hear things are going reasonably well. It's wonderful you still get to see Indy and Sassy. I hope all goes well with your current 3 foster girls and that Randy will fit in with your family too!

Sabrina said...

I hope so too! Based on our limited visits to date, it seems like he'll do well. He's just got to give himself a chance!