Sunday, December 21, 2008
Tagged: My Honey
Fire!!!!
I'm sure one day we'll understand God's timing on this, but what we've been waiting for has finally happened. We got a *permanent* placement. She has been with us for a couple of weeks now. At first she was in respite care while we moved back into our house, but now she's with us. If I don't understand the timing, I definitely understand why we've had to wait so long. I believe with all of my heart that she was meant for us. She is 15 years old, and she just fits in perfectly. She loves the kids and vice versa. I'll call her Tinkerbell here. It's just such an incredible blessing.
Well, guys, I'm going to sign off now, but I just wanted to say thanks for the prayers during this time, which has been difficult, and we'd appreciate any more that you'd throw our way as we fight with our insurance company. Merry Christmas everyone!
P.S. I'm on the Taylor for Jacob bandwagon now :)
Thursday, November 20, 2008
A Visit with Sophia
... and you can see he's made a good first impression, as usual.
Isn't she so beautiful?
Saturday, November 8, 2008
New Arrival!!!
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Psalm 37:4
I really thought about giving up for awhile. If anybody is looking for signs in the events of the past 6 months or so, it would seem like this was just not meant to be. Discouragement plays a part in it, but I have a real desire to do what God wants us to. I felt like, since the beginning, that this is just what God wants us to do. Everytime I've thought about giving up, I've been reassured. But I've been confused. Why is this happening?
Yesterday we went to the fall foster care picnic. We looked around at all of these people with hordes of kids... especially little kids, and I felt very desolate. Having more little children around is the desire of my heart... isn't God supposed to give us that? It was so hard to hang on to the idea that this is our purpose while we were surrounded with all of these familes with their foster children, and we were the family who can't hang on to one kid for more than a couple of days. And then we found out that the one kid who really had my heart... Miss B... went home. My heart hurt.
I didn't have alot of time to dwell on the morning. We left and by the time we got home and did a couple of chores, it was time to leave again for a concert. Jeremy Camp is one of my very favorite Christian artists, and I just love him more now having seen him last night.. outdoors in the super cold weather. He talked about walking by faith... even though he lost his wife to cancer, he can still walk by faith and live God's purpose. I'm sure it's not the way he thought his life would turn out. I'm sure he had a plan. I'm sure that when he got married, he thought God had given him the desire of his heart. God had a different plan though. I encourage you to read about is life at his website, and I'll post the link below:
http://jeremycamp.com/about.htm
Guys, this is not the way I thought this would turn out. I expected to have a houseful of little ones by now. I don't know what's in store for us, but I got the message. We had decided to help teenagers, but know I know that our calling is teenagers. We may still have little ones, but I understand that this is not about the desire of my heart. This is about his desire for our ministry -- because that's what this has always supposed to be-- a ministry. I still believe he will give me the desire of my heart, but I now know that desire will change -- is changing, really. We are going to try to stand in the breech between these kids' last ditch effort and being tossed out of the system on their 18th birthday. I beg for your prayers. I am so thankful for the prayers that have been offered up already on our behalf.
Psalm 37:4
Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Popcorn From My Girl
After CiCi left on Sunday, I was feeling pretty down... watching a weepy chick flick. I had just popped some popcorn for the kids, and Juli came up to me and gave me some popcorn. She said, "Here you go Mommy! It's 'cause I love you!".
I felt better.
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Running
Sunday, September 28, 2008
A Change of Heart
And so, you guys know what a hard time we've had just starting. I think if we'd just paid attention to start with, it wouldn't have been so hard. This year with our church's youth has definitely prepared us for what's to come. You'd think that kids in church would have less problems than your average ordinary, but, at least for our church, that's plainly just not the case. We have a great support system for teenagers, and, let's face it, my husband is just outstanding with teenagers. Truly. I still haven't given up on my hopes for some little ones for my babies to play with, but I suddenly see the value of having teenagers too.
I miss Miss B still.
And so, as you might guess, the next placement was quick to come. We actually got the call on Monday. This one I can't really talk about very much, just because it's a sensitive case. Little Mama was 16. She came on Wednesday, and we had her for about 2 hours. She was supposed to be a temporary placement, although not as temporary as it turned out to be. All I can say is that the agency was not at fault here, and we were not at fault here, and nothing really "happened". It's a reminder that it's not all sunshine and roses, and we have to be very careful about the placements that we take.
Wednesday afternoon we got a call for yet another placement. We are supposed to find out on Monday or Tuesday whether she'll actually be coming. This girl is 18, and would be a permanent placement. That's really all I can tell you at this point because it's all that I know. Pray for us! Pray that if we can help this girl, that she'll give us a shot.
We've had a crazy weekend. I'll have to post about the Beth Moore retreat and the Volunteer Appreciation soon... don't let me forget.
Monday, September 15, 2008
Baby Steps
Last Thursday we got a call from one of the other foster families in our area, and we got to babysit for their four foster kids on Friday. It was only for a couple of hours, but we really had a nice time. It felt like the first little baby step on the way to an actual placement. Well, we did get a placement today, BUT... it's temporary respite care for only four days. We'll be taking care of a 14 year old girl over the weekend. This feels like a much steadier toddler step, and JP and I feel like we've really turned a corner. Here's hoping we'll be running laps soon!
Friday, August 29, 2008
Holding Pattern
Here's Juli on her first day of school!
Juli has been wanting to play with these dinosaurs ever since she saw them at Jonathan's pre-K open house almost two years ago. Isn't it beautiful to see a dream realized?
My Country Bumpkin :)
My babies are all growing up!
Thursday, August 21, 2008
School
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Random Juli, Vol.2
Juli: Look mommy, I have a scratch! (pulls down her shorts to show a red place on her hip)
Me: Oh, poor baby, what happened?
Juli: It's a timple!!
Me: A timple??? You mean a pimple?
Juli: No mommy, we don't say that.
Me: What, pimple? It's okay to say pimple... see... pimple, pimple.
Juli: No mommy, let's call it... uuuuh.... uuuummm.... Mr....... Timpleton. Yeah, Mr. Timpleton.
Me: Mr. Timpleton the Pimple?
Juli: Yeah!!!!!
Monday, August 11, 2008
One of Those Days
Friday, August 8, 2008
... waiting... waiting.... forever waiting
The First Duckie Cake
Here are the kids hanging out at John's parent's pool
Here's a picture that did not go *quite* as planned
Here's my baby... snuggled up with his wittle beaw!
And... finally.... my budding actor:
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Random Juli, Vol. 1
So, while John and I were cooking on Monday, I put Sesame Street on the big TV. When we came back, Juli had lined her dolls and stuffed animals on our couch. John asked her what their names are, and she went down the line, "This one is Brady, this one is Helen, This one is Hannah, this one is (fill in random normal names here), and this one is Vitamin, and THIS one is SELFISH!!!!
LOL!?!?!?
Blessed!
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Charbroiled
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Drum Roll Please!!!!
Well, we are off to King's Dominion in the morning. I'll update you probably on Monday!!
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
We Made It!
Dad and Kids riding the carousel.
Katie, enjoying the carousel.
Pilot #1
Pilot #2
The kids rode the train around the park. You can see they enjoyed it!
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Rest before Chaos... and the Pool Incident
I'm still recovering well from my little surgery. All in all, it was infinitely easier than my past surgeries, and my husband took care of us all so well! As a reward, he's spent most of the last several days finishing up GTA IV, and I've been told that he's nearly done (Thank You Jesus!!!!). We're all trying to rest up and rejuvenate before our lives get tumbled into chaos again. There's lots of stuff going on in the next little bit, and I hope that I'll get a chance to post some pics and let you guys know all about it. This next weekend we're going to NC to visit John's family (some of them would claim me too). I'm super excited about seeing the newlyweds (Harry and Bailey), and my Katie (John's neice), and the expectant parents (Dave and Bhakti). Things are always ... interesting... with John's parents, so hopefully that'll go well also.
The week after JP and I are going to chaperone a Youth trip to a Christian Music festival. Yikes! I'm still pretty excited though, and there's going to be some great music. The kiddies are staying with Nana for a couple of days, since we agreed that they're not quite ready for 3 days in the hot sun, probably being bored. I was really torn between leaving them and taking them.. but we committed to being chaperones, and we wouldn't be much good at that with our two little ones along. Besides, this will be our last chance to do this kind of thing, since....
... our background checks should be in near the end of July. So, here's hoping that we'll have some more kiddies by then.
I promised I'd tell you the pool story, so here goes:
One of the other Youth Leader's children had a pool birthday party last Saturday. John had a lot of work to do for our Youth Gaming night, so he won the toss, so to speak, and I had to be the one to take our kids swimming while JP worked (and took pictures) on the side. So, when it was time for me to get into the pool, I responsibly went to the ladder turned around backwards, started to go down the ladder, and fell backwards into the pool. That's just so typical. Remind me to tell you about the bumper boat story sometime. Anyway, I had a couple of nasty bruises to show for it. My surgery was the following Monday, and when I pre-registered, one of the questions that they had asked is if I had fallen in the last 30 days... to which I said ... uhm, probably!?!?. I had to go in on Monday and tell the pool story to all the nice doctors and nurses. Why me?
Anyway, JP was able to document some of our pool moments :
Here are my babies: all floatied up and ready to go!
Here they are enjoying the water. You can tell that I'm thrilled about this "I'm in the water and you're taking pictures" arrangement.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Recovering
Remind me to tell you guys about the pool adventure, next time.
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Friday the 13th lasts all week long...
If I were a superstitious person, I would really fear the week after. Take this week for example. On Monday, I had to go to my gynecologist (grounds enough), and I had to get a biopsy. The biopsy is totally "for peace of mind", but it was extremely painful, and wondering about the results has made me slightly bonkers. I had an argument over the phone with a clothing company, the results for the biopsy were late, I had to hold my extremely full bladder while some lady pushed on my abdomen and took pictures (also known as Ultrasound).
And here's where my day really started to go downhill. We found out that the state auditor had a problem with our foster care application, so we have to re-do our background check, which will take 6 weeks to 3 months to complete.
So, we decided to take our sorrows to Applebee's to try to get some fresh scenery and enjoy a family evening. Juli dropped macaroni on her leg and know has a horrible burn and blisters to go along with it.
I'm just going to rent out a padded room for the rest of the week!
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Update (A.K.A. Strike Two)
Please pray for us that we'll get the right placement at the right time.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Foster Parenting Update !!!
The good news is that the placement that sticks shouldn't take long.
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Foster Parenting ?!?!
I think for me it comes from being an only child. I was just so lonely growing up, and a lot of the lessons I had to learn later in life I think I would've learned earlier if I'd had siblings. And now, I've been blessed with a friend who's like a sister in every way but name (love you, Amber!!), but I'd hate to think what my life would be like without that connection. I would not rob my children of that experience for anything in the world -- not for my own comfort or theirs. I truly believe that God used those experiences to create this drive in me have more children. And not just for my kids, but for us, too. As fate would have it, it looks like we are not going to have any more biological children. So, now what?
We looked at international adoption, which is an incredible thing, but the expense is certainly a problem. Domestic adoption was never really an option for us... not in the way of having a birth mother pick you. I think for us it's always been about finding children who need a home. There's an abundance of people who want to adopt the babies. What about everybody else?
I had taken to watching "Adoption Stories" on Discovery Health, and those stories of foster parents who had adopted their children were just fantastic to me. "These are the kids who need us", I thought. For me, that was pretty much it. I started to work on John about it, but this was at the very beginning of our Christian days, and he just really wasn't that excited about the prospect. God worked on him though, and it wasn't long before he agreed. So, we started the process, but a few months later, the agency determined that we didn't spend enough time at home to qualify as foster parents.
So our goal for this last year was to be ready to try again this summer. God has blessed us in ways that I just didn't think were possible. We became youth leaders in our church. John got a promotion that allows him to pretty much set his own schedule. We moved to a house that is much larger, and is much better suited for a larger family. And God never let us forget that it was for an eventual goal -- there would be foster children in this house with us.
So, a few weeks ago, we contacted the case worker (CW), and we let her know that we wanted to try again, and that we spent a considerably larger amount of time at home. We thought we were going to have to take the classes again, and re-do all the paperwork, but we were okay with that. And let me just emphasize here, that this is now a calling for the both of us. John went from apathetic to just as excited and anxious as I am about this possibility.
So, last week we got a call from the CW. We had a referral of THREE CHILDREN!! We had 10-14 days to finish our paperwork and have our homestudy so that we could take in these three kids. So, we worked hard for a solid week to finish everything so that they'd have a place to go. Everything just went perfect.
Then, the day after we were certified (Friday), we contacted the CW, and she let us know that a relative had decided to retain custody of the kids.
And so we were introduced to the particular hardships of foster parenting. I have to say that we're still feeling a little lost right now, but I know that God has a purpose for all of this. Our youth leader said that it could be that having those kids stay in their family was an answer to a prayer. Wow. What a way to look at it, and I hope that's the case. As for us, it's back to business as usual -- sort of. Now there forever looms this chance of a phone call that can change it all in an instant.
I'll let you know when we get it.
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
The Wedding, Part II
Monday, May 26, 2008
The Wedding
Here are Uncle Dave and Aunt Bhakti. You can *almost* tell she's pregnant.
And here's our flower girl. This picture was taken by Uncle Dave, who claims it happened only by divine intervention.
Friday, April 18, 2008
Belated Birthday Update
Don't these look amazing? They tasted even better!
Jonathan and Carter have apparently missed each other.
It's a miracle!! My parents actually agreed to be in a picture!
The kiddie table ( I was sitting there too)
I just think this is a hilarious picture for some reason. They almost look like a group of super heroes.
The Lemmons boys eat cake!
Nathan: Our prize winner for being the first not to cheat!
Okay, that's all for now, but more to come!
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Getting Serious About Blogging
Jonathan and Juli woke up early to see what the easter basket brought them! Here they are looking all bleary eyed!
Here they are at church. Juli has a Tinkerbell-ish kind of dress on, but you can't tell because she insisted on buttoning her sweater all of the way up. Jonathan found the blue stuffed monkey on the easter egg hunt. He called it an electric fighting machine. We just smiled and nodded. He definitely has an active imagination!
So, we spent our easter evening napping and eating chocolate.This weekend we had visitors from out of town: John's parents. We've not seen them in almost two years, so this was a very stressful event. Things went really well, so I'm glad about that, and we also got to see John's cousin Katie (she calls us aunt and uncle, which is cool). We had a great visit with her, and Juli especially loved spending time with another girl.
This is pretty much the way these two were all weekend. They just loved each other!
Katie and Jonathan got along pretty well, but she was pretty confused by his "all boy" behavior.
Okay, I hate having pictures taken of me, much less posting them, but this was such a rare event (the two of us actually being willing to have our picture taken), that I couldn't resist.
Here are me and my girls. Juli and I are really going to miss Katie.
This is a picture of my husband's parents with all of the children.
So, after our work week this week, we have Jonathan's birthday party on Saturday, and we'll hopefully have some guests this weekend as well.
More to come!!